Is he in or out?

Valeria was feeling lonely and she really wanted to find a capuchin monkey, then she decided to go to the Internet, signed up on dating sites and started her search. Some dates were frustrated until she met Rafael. They started exchanging e-mails for while until they decided to meet.

The date was at a bar in the center, it was cold and Rafael wore a black coat and Valeria was wearing blue jeans with ankle-high boots ... yes she was feeling sexy.
At first Valerie thought Rafael was a bit cold, but gradually he was coming off and they talked as if they knew each other for years.



Many other dates happened but Rafael never approached Valeria. He invited her to go out with him, but never more than a hug at the end of the date. Valeria was confused, because what did he want with her? Did he want to know her well before something more serious? Or did he want only friendship? But this second hypothesis seemed strange because men never want to go out with women just for friends, unless they are gay.

Valeria was exhausted these dates of friendship, she desired a man to be her partner, some friends of her questioned his sexuality, but Valeria refused to believe he might be gay.Valeria was sure that Rafael wanted just her friendship then she decided to treat him as a friend and invited him to have a pizza at her place. Since they were just friends, she didn’t worry about the Brazilian wax and wearing a sexy lingerie


After they had pizza, Rafael looked at her and grabbed her and they began kissing. The thing began to heat up Valerie remembered she was not prepared for that situation and told him it was better to go more slowly and he stopped kissing her. In any normal guy would insist, but it looks as if Rafael was relieved.

Valerie was so excited about kissing Rafael that she thought he would finally become her capuchin monkey, but it was not what happened, Rafael didn’t call her anymore and two weeks later, reappeared saying he felt pressured by her. Valeria got really sad, but decided she should forget him. He kept calling her and treated her as if nothing had happened.

Valeria turn not understand how a person who is enrolled in a dating site would want only friendship. She couldn’t understand why he wasn’t attracted to her. These thoughts led Valerie to believe that maybe his friends were right and Rafael maybe was gay.



Months later Valerie saw a photo of Rafael in another relationship site, he was embraced in a bar with two guys looking very gay and she thought: Does Raphael put his hand on the grass? This is a question that Valerie never knew to answer for sure.